Sunday, April 19, 2009

PIssed off Pandora


This picture pretty well sums up my mood right now. I have thought long and hard about this post and if I wanted to actually put it out here for the world to see. There are some that at least used to read this blog that will probably take offense to it but, in the end it is MY blog and MY opinion and this is the place I feel "safest" in expressing myself. With that said, I have some things I just really need to get off my chest.

I hate people - I don't discriminate based on race, age, ethnicity, gender, sexual orientation.... I hate everyone equally. Well, okay maybe I'm not that far gone but, I do have a very strong disdain for the majority of mankind. I find myself surrounded by people who will do whatever it takes not to take responsibility for their actions - no matter what that means. Given the opportunity, people will lie, cheat and steal to make themselves look better. I realize yet again, I have a very old world soul & view on life. I believe strongly in a few things:
  • A parent ALWAYS puts their child first - no matter what that means, no matter the sacrifice, no matter what - you do anything to protect your child at all costs.
  • A man (or woman) is only as good as their word - if you give your word about something keep it - if you can't keep it then don't give it.
  • A man (or woman) should be known by their deeds. If someone goes out of their way to help you - say THANK YOU!!!! If you are an ass - that is how people will know you so don't get offended or surprised.
  • Everyone makes mistakes - but if you do - learn to say I'm sorry. Learn to admit you screwed up. Ask for forgiveness and take responsibility damn it.
  • Not everyone is meant to be a parent - so before you spread your legs or whip out the big boy - think it through because it is a lifelong commitment. If you aren't ready to sacrifice everything for someone else then DON'T DO IT!
  • You can pick your friends but you can't choose your family - you figure out what I mean there.
I'm fed up with being the person who cleans up after people. I'm tired of being the person who is expected to forgive and forget. I'm done not holding people accountable. I'm turning in my enabler wings and I'm going from 0 to bitch in 2.2 seconds. Don't plan on pushing me around any more. If you can't take responsibility for screwing up - stay clear of me. If you can't be true to yourself or those around you - get out of my life. If you are destructive, self-centered and oblivious to how others feel - leave me alone. This is me quoting one of my favorite celebrity chefs (and yes I have more than one) Gordon Ramsey, "Piss off!!"

This is one very angry, moody and fed up Pandora telling the world I'm through with being walked on so stand up and take notice.


** If you think this post is talking about you...it probably is so take notice!

2 comments:

From the Heart said...

Wow, there are so many ways to take this post. First, i am proud of you and proud to say you are my friend. Second, you are right, again. Third, everyone can learn something, from this post. Fourth, some should take notice, and right the wrongs. Fifth, 2.2? is that a car reference? ;-)

Pandora said...

You know me so well...of course it is a car reference. Unfortunately the people who need to right the wrongs won't ...or just can't. Some people just aren't equipped to change. Me? Right again? Well of course... *wink*